{"id":3757,"date":"2021-03-03T09:54:45","date_gmt":"2021-03-03T09:54:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/?p=3757"},"modified":"2021-03-03T15:03:59","modified_gmt":"2021-03-03T15:03:59","slug":"uvaha-o-objati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/uvaha-o-objati\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00daVAHA O OBJAT\u00cd"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Nevi\u0148te ma z toho, \u017ee ste tento \u010dl\u00e1nok mo\u017eno u\u017e \u010d\u00edtali. M\u00e1m p\u00e1r n\u00e1padov na dobr\u00fa t\u00e9mu, ale ako si mi nevych\u00e1dza psychick\u00e9 rozpolo\u017eenie na vyjadrovanie my\u0161lienok, sk\u00f4r som v tomto obdob\u00ed ove\u013ea citlivej\u0161\u00ed a vn\u00edmavej\u0161\u00ed na ich pr\u00edjimanie. <br>Vymaz\u00e1vam si pracovn\u00fa plochu od zbyto\u010dnost\u00ed a narazil som na screenshot m\u00f4jej \u00favahy publikovanej v jednom starom \u010d\u00edsle Barmagaz\u00ednu takmer pred 8 rokmi. Pre\u010d\u00edtal som si ju a dovol\u00edm si poveda\u0165, \u017ee ma tie slov\u00e1 zasiahli e\u0161te viac ako pred t\u00fdm, preto \u017ee objatie dost\u00e1va zrazu \u010fal\u0161\u00ed rozmer, ktor\u00fd som v \u010dase p\u00edsania \u010dl\u00e1nku nepoznal a dnes si ove\u013ea viac uvedomujem, \u017ee sa stane jedn\u00fdm zo symbolov, \u017ee je svet zase v poriadku. Dovtedy si to aspo\u0148 pripome\u0148me. <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>BARMANSK\u00c9 TELO NA TELO.<br><br>Objatie \u010dloveka \u010dlovekom m\u00e1 jasn\u00fd v\u00fdznam.&nbsp;&nbsp;Obj\u00edmame svoju rodinu, ke\u010f ju znovu vid\u00edme po dlh\u0161om \u010dase. Obj\u00edmame svoje deti, svojho \u017eivotn\u00e9ho partnera a&nbsp;&nbsp;vyjadrujeme t\u00fdm l\u00e1sku a rados\u0165.<br>V barmanskom \u017eivote m\u00e1 v\u0161ak pribl\u00ed\u017eenie tela na telo \/podot\u00fdkam, \u017ee v \u0161at\u00e1ch\/ svoj zvl\u00e1\u0161tny v\u00fdznam. A neviem, \u010di v in\u00fdch profesi\u00e1ch m\u00e1 tak\u00fd v\u00fdznam, ale ako tak pozorujem barov\u00fa sc\u00e9nu pri r\u00f4znych pr\u00edle\u017eitostiach, d\u00e1 sa v \u0148om vidie\u0165 ve\u013ea \u0161pecifick\u00fdch obrazov.<br>Prv\u00fd kr\u00e1t som objatie dvoch barmanov za\u010dal vn\u00edma\u0165 v predve\u010der druh\u00e9ho Barconventu. Ke\u010f pri prvom som sa kone\u010dne zoznamoval s barmanmi, s ktor\u00fdmi som bol dovtedy virtu\u00e1lne prek\u00e1blovan\u00fd, iba&nbsp;&nbsp;zdvorilostn\u00fdm zoznamovac\u00edm potriasan\u00edm r\u00fak, pri druhom u\u017e to bolo srde\u010dnej\u0161ie. Pre\u017eili sme spolu p\u00e1r drinkov, vymenili si p\u00e1r n\u00e1zorov a mailov.&nbsp;<br>Zauj\u00edmav\u00e9 je, \u017ee objatie dvoch barmanov v\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee na mal\u00fa chv\u00ed\u013eu odstavi\u0165. M\u00f4\u017ete sa c\u00edti\u0165 odstr\u010den\u00fd, \u010di menej d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd a v\u00e1\u017een\u00fd. Slab\u0161\u00edm povah\u00e1m, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou mlad\u00fdm barmanom nie je jedno, ke\u010f stoja pri bare, pop\u00edjaj\u00fa svoj prv\u00fd Manhattan a v\u0161etky ve\u013ek\u00e9 men\u00e1 sa okolo nich obj\u00edmaj\u00fa a rozpr\u00e1vaj\u00fa, spom\u00ednaj\u00fa na pre\u017eit\u00e9 barov\u00e9 ve\u010dery a \u010dlovek si m\u00f4\u017ee zrazu pripada\u0165 zbyto\u010dn\u00fd. A\u017e do chv\u00edle, kedy mlad\u00e9ho barmana jeden z obj\u00edmaj\u00facich sa nepredstav\u00ed druh\u00e9mu objat\u00e9mu a mlad\u00fd barman sa m\u00f4\u017ee u\u017e na druhom stretnut\u00ed zapoji\u0165 do obj\u00edmacieho ritu\u00e1lu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/stan2-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3759\" width=\"339\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/stan2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/stan2-300x200.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/stan2-768x512.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/stan2.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Barmani si vz\u00e1jomn\u00fdm objat\u00edm d\u00e1vaj\u00fa najavo, \u017ee sa re\u0161pektuj\u00fa, \u017ee uzn\u00e1vaj\u00fa pr\u00e1cu toho druh\u00e9ho, \u017ee ho maj\u00fa radi ako \u010dloveka a \u017ee s n\u00edm radi str\u00e1via \u010das a daj\u00fa si s n\u00edm radi aspo\u0148 jeden drink. Z\u00e1rove\u0148, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou podvedome, d\u00e1vaj\u00fa okoliu najavo, \u017ee nie s\u00fa iba jedni z mnoh\u00fdch z\u00fa\u010dastnen\u00fdch, ale \u017ee s\u00fa to ostrie\u013ean\u00ed harcovn\u00edci, ktor\u00ed sa na svetovej sc\u00e9ne pohybuj\u00fa u\u017e nejak\u00fd ten \u010das.\u00a0<br>No a povedzme si otvorene, ak sa na Barconvente obj\u00edmete s Philom Duffom, tak va\u0161e sebavedomie dok\u00e1\u017ee st\u00fapnu\u0165 o pekn\u00fdch p\u00e1r centimetrov. C\u00edtite jemne z\u00e1vistliv\u00e9 poh\u013eady barmanov, ktor\u00ed rozoberaj\u00fa barov\u00fa sc\u00e9nu so v\u0161etk\u00fdch str\u00e1n s neut\u00edchaj\u00facou snahou niekam patri\u0165. Ak v\u00e1s obj\u00edme tak\u00fd Garry Regan, \u010di Charles Schumann, tak si okam\u017eite z\u00edskavate re\u0161pekt o\u010dit\u00fdch svedkov bez toho, aby ste namie\u0161ali \u010do i len jeden drink.\u00a0<br>Nerob\u00edm si v\u0161ak z toho srandu, aj ke\u010f mi to v niektor\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch pr\u00edde smie\u0161ne.\u00a0<br>C\u00edtim v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9 spojenie s \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00fdch m\u00f4\u017eem obja\u0165. Tak\u00fdch poklad\u00e1m za svojich kamar\u00e1tov, za \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00fdch si ve\u013emi v\u00e1\u017eim a po po\u010diato\u010dnom re\u0161pekte a p\u00e1r prepit\u00fdch nociach sme zistili, \u017ee zdie\u013eame spolo\u010dn\u00e9 hodnoty. A je mi \u00faprimne jedno, kto sa pozer\u00e1, neobj\u00edmam sa preto, aby som z\u00edskal na kredite. Objatie vn\u00edmam ako spojenie srdca a barmanskej du\u0161e.\u00a0                                                                                                   A v tomto sa, mysl\u00edm, odli\u0161ujeme od bank\u00e1rov, lek\u00e1rov, \u010di obchodn\u00edkov s cenn\u00fdmi papiermi&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Publikovan\u00e9 v Barmagazine \u010d. 34, M\u00e1j 2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pre\u010d\u00edtali ste vy\u0161e 570 slov a trvalo v\u00e1m to 3 min\u00faty. Alebo tak nejako, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, \u010di ste medzi t\u00fdm pozerali do mobilu. <br>Posted by: Lubo\u0161 R\u00e1cz<br>foto: Slovak barshow 2017<\/p>\n<fb:like \r\n\t\thref=\"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/uvaha-o-objati\/\" \r\n\t\tlayout=\"button_count\" \r\n\t\tshow_faces=\"false\" \r\n\t\twidth=\"350\" \r\n\t\t\r\n\t\taction=\"like\" \r\n\t\tcolorscheme=\"light\" \r\n\t\tstyle=\"margin-top:5px;\"\r\n\t\tclass=\"fb_edge_widget_with_comment fb_iframe_widget\"><\/fb:like>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nevi\u0148te ma z toho, \u017ee ste tento \u010dl\u00e1nok mo\u017eno u\u017e \u010d\u00edtali. M\u00e1m p\u00e1r n\u00e1padov na dobr\u00fa t\u00e9mu, ale ako si mi nevych\u00e1dza psychick\u00e9 rozpolo\u017eenie na vyjadrovanie my\u0161lienok, sk\u00f4r som v tomto obdob\u00ed ove\u013ea citlivej\u0161\u00ed a vn\u00edmavej\u0161\u00ed na ich pr\u00edjimanie. Vymaz\u00e1vam si pracovn\u00fa plochu od zbyto\u010dnost\u00ed a narazil som na screenshot m\u00f4jej \u00favahy publikovanej v jednom [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","footnotes":""},"categories":[27,13,193],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3757"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3757"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3757\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3775,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3757\/revisions\/3775"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.barkultur.sk\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}